I This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 220: Naam mein kyaa rakhaa hai?

English language it is commonly said – What is there in a name? But there is something in using that name. Listen to my take, and share your’s.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 219: Rishte

Creating, Developing, Maintaining relations. My Take.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 218: Paas Pados

When I tried to look for the English translation of Pados, I could only find neighbourhood. But to me it is much more than that. What is Pados for me, I share. You examine for yourself!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 217: Chutti ho gayee

Holiday in Hindi is Chutti and what is a chutti, I have tried to look at it from my perspective. You may also look at it and share. But first listen to me.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 216: Kaisee Kaisee Khushi 

In my life I have experienced many types of happiness. Some of them have been short-lived, some partial and some have been a bliss. I share my oasis of happiness with you!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 215: Noor aa gayaa hai 

Some people who come into our lives, do bring a sort of shine to the group where we meet. What is so special? I have examined my showmen and would like you to examine yours.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 214: Filler of a blank

Position in other’s lives, does not define ourselves. I have looked at this part of our role play. You may listen to it and then think about your motivation to do that or otherwise.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 213: Holika Dahan aur Holi

Holi is all about traditions and rituals. I have looked at the rituals in my own way and have requested you also to look at it in your own way. Just listen to what I have to say, then decide about your perspective and talk about it!

  This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 212: Kathputali Kaun

Jahaanpanaah hum sab upar vaale ke haath kee kathputaliyaan hain! Remember this. I have made an attempt to just share some thoughts on this issue. Listen to me and then think!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 211: Khwaab mein aane kaa adhikaar

Do I have a right to come in your dreams? Do you have a right to come in mine? Do we have a right to do this or that? Today I have shared my thoughts on this topic!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 210: Bevajah Jashn

The reason for celebration is essential? We have to look into ourselves and then decide. I did that and found that celebration without a reason is more enjoyable, since it not only has spontaneity but also imagination. I share my take and you may share yours with me or anyone you consider suitable. But share you must.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 209: Rishte aur Himalaya

Relationships and Mountains have certain similarities and both have lessons and guidelines. I have looked at a few of my own. Let us share!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 208: Baatein ek dost se

Talking to a friend is always a pleasure. I am sharing the discussion with you.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 207: Film waale dost ki baatein

Once you start talking about a friend, you are really confused, where to start and to what extent you can go. Same thing happened with me. But here it is more about his work than about himself. Cinema of yesteryears, a glimpse!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 206: chitthee-aayee_hai_aur_aayegee

Letter writing is said to be a lost art. Here I share my letter writing days and my take on why and how to continue writing letters, and enjoy saying what you want to say without any anxiety of an immediate response. Just enjoy, in case you still do not want to write letters!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 205: aatmaprashansaa_zarooree_hai

Is it necessary to blow your own trumpet? There are both sides to this question and the arguments can be well made for both of them. I have made an attempt to look at it!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 204: Gifts_and_Memories

What is the significance of gifts, which are given after someone returns from a far off land or which is offered just for no reason. I share my views, you may examine yours.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 203: Ignore_kiye_jaayein_to_kyaa_karein

Being ignored is the worst form of insult, according to me. But when you are at the receiving end then how to deal with it. I have shared my experience and views!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 202: Badappan

Being elder in the family is a boon as well as responsibility. This episode is devoted to that aspect of life. Let us give it a hearing!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 201: Ye Ladke

Men will be men and boys will be boys. But do men never want to be boys, just like women want to remain girls forever? I have looked at this from my point of view, and shared some thoughts. You decide for yourself, but listen to what I have to say!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 200: Jinhon Ne Banayaa

Just as there is a process of production, where Raw Material is converted to finished goods after passing through a phase and meeting a lot of catalysts and purifiers, my life is also an outcome of many such influences. I share a few of those!

During a visit to the city of Tehzeeb, Lucknow for a wedding and visit, had some lovely experiences of life which I have shared here. This is a story of temptations and barriers, interlaced with experiences of culture and tehzeeb.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 198: Seekhnaa-sikhaanaa

Learning is a lifelong process. Important part is to know how to start and how long to start. I have tried to get some experiences of others as well. You may share your views with me, or someone else close to you.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 197: Bhoot kahaan nahin hain

Ghosts are all around us. We are often afraid of them also. But why is it so? Can the ghosts be looked at in a different perspective also. I have tried to do that, please take a look and then you decide about your ghosts!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 196: Apne_andar_kaa_Paryaavaran

We are generally worrying about the environment, when we visit a  place, I have shared an experience of exploring inside environment, while visiting a place. You listen to my examination, and then try to look at yourself.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 195: Fursat_Nikaalein

Are we Hercules? I had a feeling always in my life that the whole world is staying in place because of my strong shoulders. But alas, that is not true. The pinprick came many years ago. Although, I continue with the same thought, but I should not. I wish to share with you, my thoughts.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 194: Deewaaliyon_ki_baatein

Every Diwali brings a lot of memories. It is upto us to decide which memories to cherish and which one we must forget. I share, some such memories.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 193: Hum mein Banaras

I have shared my take on Banaras. And I wish this Banaras which is in me, should stay forever, with me. Take a look, would you also like to have this Banaras in you?

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 192: Maaf_karein_yaa_nahin

Apology is to be accepted or not is generally not a very big question. But it becomes big when someone wants to think about what next. I do that and the result is in front of you.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 191: Adrishyataa_kee_bhaavnaa

Why am I invisible? Is this not a feeling, which nags you at times? It does, to me. I have shared my thoughts, along with some experiences. I tell you my story and remedy!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 190: Kahaan_tak_aur_Kab_tak

Making efforts for reaching a target is always considered good. But there are some of us who do not realise as to when the targets need to be readjusted, alignment needs to be changed, and that results in catastrophic failures sometimes. How long and how far? I have attempted take a brief look on the topic.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 189: Haan kah kar to dekho

Saying yes to the questions can make an immense change to our otherwise questioning and reasonable personality. For once, unquestioning yes has made my life much better, and it has impacted positively on my interpersonal relations and general atmosphere around me. I will share my views here!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 188: kuch_nayaa_seekhnaa

I have tried to keep up with changing world. What all I had to undergo in my attempt for the same and up to what level I could reach, all that I have narrated here in brief. You may examine your own experiences and compare them with mine. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 187: Kuch bhee plus 

We all have a desire to be unique and different. Some of us succeed in this and some not. But we definitely want to make efforts to give our children an edge that in my words is to add a plus to their achievements. I have done it, and now what I feel? 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 186: Is Duvidhaa mein Kyaa karein?

What to do? Whenever I am sitting on the horns of dilemma I have a technique to arrive at a solution acceptable to me. I will share those with you. But do you agree that not taking a decision is also a decision?

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 185: Aakhir shikaayat kyon hai?

I started thinking as to why I have complaints from friends and others for small misdeeds (as per my opinion) but major catastophes which can not be attributed to any person or incident, are just treated as acts of God and I, along with perhaps many of us, tend to just take it as fate. Why? I have raised questions, you may examine!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 184: Ummeed ki Kiran

Hope is an eternal flame which is present at all times and in all persons, including me. That hope or ummeed is some thing which I have tried to understand. My views on having a hope, fulfilment of the same and the hope not coming true!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 183: Meraa matlab hai ki

I mean. This is one of the most common phrases, that is used in many informal conversations. Not that it is not used in formal settings. I have my views on such ambiguities which necessitates use of I mean. Let me share!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 182: Udghaatan ki Baatein

Inaugurating something is important to everyone, may it be in personal life or public life. Perhaps, like me, most of us do not get an opportunity to do it in public life. So, here I have shared my views of inaugurations in my life!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 181: Itni gaaliyaan kyon?

Few days back heard someone cursing the children and others for their lethargy, and at the same time using language which could not be termed as parliamentary. I decided to talk about abuses and the benefits of using such language. But the same time, i also tried to think why do we or more appropriately, I, use such language. So here it is!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 180: Wo aisaa kyon karte hain?

We behave in a particular way and many times we question others on the way they behave. Sometimes we want that our way of behaving or handling matters should be mirrored in others also. This happens generally with perfectionists. My take on the subject!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 179: Mast_Padhate_Hain!

Accepting feedback, positive or negative. How it impacts and my experiences. Also how sometimes feedback can put one in a situation! I share my experiences. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 178: Laila Majnu kee jodi kahaan se aa rahee hai

Have you ever received a compliment which you do not deserve? I have. I share with you the train of thoughts which started rolling after that. These are only a few of those.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 177: Ladkiyaan Ro To Leti Hain

A random conversation started a train of thought. I share my views and would love to hear yours. Here I go!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 176: Shaadiyon mein jaanaa Part 2

This is a continuation of my thoughts and experiences from last week. There is a lot more that I would be talking about these experiences in coming weeks. Till then please give do share what you think about my perceptions.  

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 175: Shaadiyon mein jaanaa Part 1

In the recent past I had an occasion to travel across the country to attend three weddings. I share some of my experiences and thoughts. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 174: Yatra Ek Chunauti

Travelling is a pleasure for me, like many other things, but at the same time it presents challenges, wherein a lot of unforeseen situations have to be faced. Some times I enjoyed and at some other times, may be, not so much. So, here are a few instances. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 173: Baatein Biscope kee

Films have played a very important role in my life, and watching films have always been a challenge and pleasure for me. I want to share my experiences and also try to look into the reasons for such love for films. Look at me sympathetically!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 172: Hamaaraa_Ghar_kaun_saa_hai

In the Indian patriarchal society girls have to leave their birth home and join a new family. But do they really shift their allegiance to their new family? My experience and take. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 171: Pyaar ke badle Pyaar

Many times one thinks that one has not received the same amount of love and affection, in return. Whether this really happens? Or it is merely a perception? I share my views.   

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 170: Aashaa se Adhik

‘Karmanye Vaadhikaaraste, Maa Phaleshu Kadachinah’ Karm kiye jaa phal kee chintaa mat kar. But this is good when the expected fruits are likely to be less than expectation. What happens when results are better than expected. My take and experiences, for your consideration!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 169: Abhivaadan ki Baat

Abhivaadan is greeting, which comes naturally to most of us. But that small expression has a big meaning and it can and does convey a lot of expressions. I share my take!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 168: Hamein Khushee Kaise Mil Saktee Hai-2

I started listing out things that make me happy. The list became too big. So this is the second part of the last weeks series of thoughts. This is the list. But believe me even this is not the complete set. Besides these, there are still many things that add to my happiness. But that story some other time!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 167: Hamein Khushee Kaise Mil Saktee Hai

Happiness is subjective. No doubt. What makes me happy? I share.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 166: Jo Tumko Ho Pasand

I had started sharing with you about the influences which helped me shape up as I am today and make me behave as I do. I continue walking through the same memory lane. Some more influences and their impact on my behaviour and thought process. Here are a few more! 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 165: Kis Kis Ne Ye Haraaa Rang Daalaa

Each and every personality is the result of various influences. Some of them we remember and many of them we do not. Today I have tried to candidly explore and remember those which shaped me as to what I am, today. And what I have been during the days. These are not all but a few, I will come with more as and when time permits.  

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 164: Mera 1954

The year 1954 played an important part in my life and the reason for that is that I made an entry into this life. May be I have been living on this earth in another life and shape earlier, but in this life that is my year of entry. Hence I have made an attempt to look at the year!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 163: Commitment is the motivator

During a recent journey I was helping an aged relative and a co-passenger looking at my age, which of course is not as advanced as it appears from my hair and gait, asked me as to what was my motivation to take up the task of helping someone else. My response and thoughts on the subject!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 162: Mud mud ke naa dekh:

This is an attempt to talk about my reasons for having an attraction for hills as well as sea. I have given my reasons and you may look at your’s. I have also given a hint of what is likely to be there in future podcasts. Let us listen!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 161: Chalo Kaheen Chalein

Wandering is something which is inherent to human nature. I also have a wanderlust. Have also spoken about it earlier. However here I have made an attempt to share some learnings which i have gathered during my recent wandering. I share it in the form of experience sharing as well as suggestions!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 160: Leader kyaa nahin karein?

Every leader has an inherent desire to accomplish. What and how, is different from case to case. people like me who were actually managers but wished to be considered leader, were no different. I share some of the nays which I learnt.  

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 159: Akele chalne kaa mazaa

There are many reasons for travelling a path which is less taken. And on many occasion it so happens that one has to tread alone. For me the reason has always been to appear different. Whatever may be the suppressed cause which makes me behave like that, is yet unknown to me. Listen to what I have to say, and decide for yourself. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 158: Kal kaisaa hogaa

What will be there tomorrow? This is an epic question which haunts most of us. Today I have made an attempt to identify the role of games which the mind play in deciding the future. My take, for your observation. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 156: Chalte to Rahnaa hee hai 

This is nothing but a word picture drawn by me to compare two lives. I was closely interacting with one of them and the other one was close to me but I was merely an observer. The comparison is to look as to why one could move on and why the other one is finding it difficult. Please listen and discuss with those, who matter most in your life.  

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 155: Rishton ki Jatiltaa

Relationships, close, distant, formal, informal or of any type involve complexities. I have made an attempt to scratch few lines on the surface as regards to the reason for such issues and as usual, share my take on the matter!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 154: Wedding Anniversary Kaise Manayein?

Anniversaries do come. Unavoidable? Awaited? Sometimes! So, what to do for celebrations(?) that is an eternal question. My take is here, you may share if you want to.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 153: Who bhee kyaa log the-Chachi Hamari

Who bhee kyaa log the-Chachi Hamari

I am commencing a subseries within my narrations wherein I will be making attempts to bring the glimpses of those who have left an indelible impression on me and who were so close to me that I could not really value when they were near me. Perhaps a classic example of poor sight. I merely touch few aspects, in this episode.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 151: Muft Kuch Bhee Nahin

I have seen that although may times, we have a feeling that something is coming to us for free. But that is a fallacy and the truth is price has to be paid. Only thing is the currency may be varied. My take on the subject!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 150: One and a half century completed

Had I been a cricketer, this might not have been an occasion for such a great joy. I am happy because, something which I started for my own satisfaction, has survived so long. All because of persistent appreciation from so many. Especially my wife, who is an equal partner in the effort and my daughters, Chinky and Kookoo who have been an endless source of ideas and energy, and friends who have regularly followed up. The theme has always been people, and the purpose has been to keep talking. Thanks everyone! I have more or less the same here! 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 149: Banaaee hui Buddhimatta

In the new year, we take a look at one of the major developments which is likely to affect our lives more and more. Intelligence which was perhaps the domain of a chosen few, is now seen even in the most ordinary areas in our lives. We have to learn to live with it. I share my views as to how I have faced it and how I am planning to live with it.  

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 148: Kyaaa Zamaanaa thaa!

You really believe that when I talk of Hamaaraa Zamaanaa then I depict myself as an old person? No, sir/madam/sir. Whatever be the age, it is human tendency to keep talking of good old days. I have heard 13 year olds talking about the days when they were 8 year old. And believe me for them that was a better time! But jokes apart, these are some really old times, about which I talk here. Are they still here, only because of my cataract, I do not see them?

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 146: Tuition ke badalte rang

Facet of tuition has been changing over the years and in the past few decades I have noticed some major shifts. I share the same. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 145: Birthdays Manaanee hee hain 

Birthdays of children and the celebrations attached to them! These are memories which remain with us always. we cherish them and relive the moments. Each year, the day(s) bring back so great flood of memories that describing them in words is difficult. I share some such!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 143: Dil ko Bachchaa hee Rahne dein 

Being a child even when physically one is not, is really not a bad thing. To me it is a good thing to let the child within us remain active. I share as to how and why I let the child within come out, more often. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 143: Google hameshaa sahee nahin hotaa

Search Engine Google is something on which all of rely blindly. But what was there when we did not have Google for assistance? Who was our Google? I want to share some such experience and views here. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 141: Mausam kuch kahtaa hai 

Every weather has an impact on our moods. I have shared some experiences that various mausam have on me. My experiences for you!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 141: Yaad Aayegee to Der talak Aayegee:

Although most of my thoughts that I share here, are my walks down the memory lane. Yet this one is specifically so, where I remember two of my Branch Managers of Probation days. Have a go!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 140: Yatraa Zarooree Hai 

Travel to me is an enjoyable time. Not so much because I want to go from one place to another, but because for me the joy lies in anticipation. Travelling hopefully is more interesting than reaching the destination, for me. I share my views on this!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 139: Beghanee shadee Deewaanaa Abdulla

Marriages are definitely made in heaven but obviously for mortals, performed on earth and when a joyous occasion arise, definitely festivities are part of it. Festivities are generally shared and people like us do participate. I share my experiences and feelings here. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 138: Sabse Bada Rupaiyaa

Value of money – differs from person to person. What happens to its absolute value? Why do some people prefer to share and some do not? What happens to those who do not prefer to share or spend? Today, I have raised more of my doubts rather than views. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 137: Sahaayataa kyaa ehsaan hai 

Seeking help and getting help has been an eternal cycle of my life. May be you also remember such incidents and transactions in life. Sometimes, it is difficult to accept help or favour, and sometimes even if you have accepted you keep thinking about returning the same. I share my views. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 136: Yaadon Mein Rakhnaa

Remembering Vinod Jetley. I have shared my thoughts about holding on to friends and keeping the memories for their sake and for my sake as well. I convey my heartfelt, which may appear raw, but you may process for yourself, if needed. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 135: Kaun see Raah Chunein

Problems created by shortages are the one, which all of us consider as real problems. Why? Perhaps because shortages have always been part of our live. Problems of plenty and selecting an option out of many? Then deliberately shedding the burden of choosing, for whatever reason? I have shared my views and experiences. Dejavu?

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 134: Badlaav

Change is the only constant. Changes, in this dynamic world, are considered as signs of progress, but what happens when these changes happen in the human behaviour and is presented to us in day to day lives? I have tried to share my observations and views. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 133: Ganpati Utsav:

Socio Religious festivities during Ganpati Utsav have their own flavour for people like us who have moved across the country from North to South and Centre. I share some of my experiences. You may please feel free to share your experiences, after listening to mine. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 132: Seekhnaa kyon hai?

To me learning is a process which continues always. The reasons for learning keep changing with life situations. I share my views!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 131: Dosti  ki kuch aur baatein 

It was a very valid awakening for me when I was told that friendship among men is not the only friendship which needs to be talked about like “Ye Dosti” etc. friendship among women is also an important phenomena which needed to be talked about. So here is a talk which is not by me alone. Let su listen to some very interesting aspects and points of view. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 130: Swatantrata Diwas

Wishing a Very Happy Independence Day to all. My free flowing thoughts.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 129: Dosti ki Baatein

We keep talking of friendship and friends. Today I invited few of my friends to share with us their views on friendship. This gives me also an opportunity to be at receiving end, where I remain silent and someone else is speaking. But believe me they are all telling the things, which I would have said. Perhaps, that is why we are friends. Please listen!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 128: Arzoo aur Intezaar

Desires and then the wait for fulfilment of that desire is an eternal factor of human life. Or is it really only a human trait? I have had occasion to look at the cause of desires. This is too short a space for the same, but still an effort. Come with me and take a peek!  

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 127: Aaj aur Abhee

Procrastination is a habit. But justifying it is an art. I considered myself a master of that till I learnt that straight shooting has its benefits. But it has pitfalls also. Waiting for the right moment is good or bad? Whether that moment will ever come? I share my experiences and views. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 126: Rajkumar bananaa

Do I have a right to be a prince in my life? Do I have a right to behave like a prince? When and in what situations I can be a prince? What stops me to be a prince? I can be a hero in my story. And I will be. Some random thoughts!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 125: Zid_yaa_Aazaadee

Old age homes or assisted community living is a reality of present day life for most of the people who are in their golden years. But I have a viewpoint on such a living, I am sharing my views and looking forward to get opinions on this viewpoint. Here it is!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 124: Sunanaa-Kahnaa:

Listening and hearing are two words having different meaning but sunanaa has a different connotation. I am presenting my take on this. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 123: Fashion Karnaa

Since times immemorial, humans have had a desire to be a part of the crowd and adherence to current fashion has perhaps been the easiest way to assimilate. Perhaps, one has to be reminded that there is no fun in being part of the crowd and the fashion also originates from those who had the courage to stand out. I take the liberty of sharing some of my attempts. You also look back and then let us compare notes.   

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 122: Bhulein yaa Nahin

Many a times, in our lives we face situations which we would not like. These situations are those where we actually are in conflict with those, whom we like, love or may be sometimes, just know. I have faced some such unsavoury situations and am sharing my experiences as well as those of a friend. Let us see how the scenes unfolded!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 121: Khushi ki Goliyaan

Do we really have Khushi ki Goliyaan. Yes, the pills that can give you happiness, for short terms or may be eternally. May be we have, may be not. But if we have such goliyaan, would we like to take them? I examined it in my case, and here are my views! You may also like to consider. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 120: Phir Bambai se laute

Mumbai has been a city of dreams for many, for different reasons, obviously. For me also, it has been the same. So this is the concluding episode of my short trip to Mumbai, which I utilised in trying to look at Mumbai life from a new perspective. I share some of the observations and the resultant feelings.   

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 119: Phir Bambai Jaa Pahunche

I visited Mumbai once again, and this time, with no agenda of mine. Life became so interesting and story worthy, that I could not stop myself from sharing it with you. This is the first in the series of, few such experiences which I would like to share with you. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 118: Triggers

Triggers to memories and the consequent feelings and actions. Some incidents in my life. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 117: Niraashaa se Nipatnaa

Disappointments are part of life. I learnt how to deal with them, pretty late in life. But I share some of my tips to deal with them. May be, someone will get learn to deal with them pretty early. Here it is! 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 116: Rearview Mirror

Rearview mirror in vehicles is essential for safe driving, In life rearview mirror is not only essential for safe living, but for living as it is. I have taken a quick look and will take many more in weeks to come. But here I have remembered one of the personalities who gave us a lot to learn about the way in which relationships need to be built and nurtured. How those relations blossom and what they do. Let us take a look. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 115: Kahaan the Kahaan hain

 We are at a certain stage of life, where we must have reached after a lot of struggles, successes, and a few failures, but always adding experiences. Those experiences keep changing us, rather most of us, some do not change. How I have changed over the years, a short glimpse!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 114: Baatein Jalan ki 2

We have discussed jealousy last week and in this concluding episode I have tried to analyse the feeling and also some homegrown solutions. Let’s see, how they come out! 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 113: Baatein Jalan Ki

Envy, Jealousy, resentment, hatred, ill will etc. There are so many names to this green-eyed monster and I have decided to take him on, today, for my benefit and yours too. First I will share, then you may! 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 112: Khushee Kaisee aur Kyon

Happiness is a state of mind, which means your mind. Happiness is also reflected. Sometimes it affects others and sometimes it affects you. Causes of happiness could be many, but every happiness comes at a price. I have shared my views and you may share yours. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 111: Kaisee Kaisee Qaid

Withdrawal of mask mandate regarding the pandemic suddenly brought out lot of memories, and being imprisoned was one of the most overpowering ones. So I have shared some of my prisons in this episode and hope this will jog your memories. Thinking about our own prisons I wondered whether they were our creations, for which had the key to come out of. I have my views, and you may share your with someone you care.  

This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 110: Kerala ki Sair

After a very long time we went on a holiday and that too to the God’s Own Place – Kerala  I have tried to express in words, the feelings generated and a few lessons that I learnt, although I have termed them as suggestion. I hope you like the share. 

This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 109: Zid Karein yaa Nahin

Zid, in common parlance is said to be bullheadedness. Today I have looked at a few aspects of this zid and have also tried to give my views on such bullheadedness. I have my own reasons of thoughts on the subject, which I have shared here. You may write back or tell me @humneekbaatkahi (Twitter handle)

This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 108: Ruk Jaanaa Nahin

It is very easy, although heartbreaking to face defeat after a whole lifetime of effort and desire. But there are a few among us who have not accepted defeat. All of us keep meeting such fighters here or there. I met one, a real young one, in the house next door. This episode is more from her and less from me. Let us listen how it was faced by her.  

This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 107: Stocktaking 

Generally the term stocktaking is considered to be a business related activity. But I have made an attempt to look at stocktaking from the point of view of our lives. Please listen to my views and share yours.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 106: Lamha yaa Arsa

I have tried to relive a few such moments.Sometimes we tend to stick to certain moments in our lives. And we expect that those moments would be of same value for others also. But that does not happen. Why? Let us see how it works. I have tried to relive a few such moments.

This is a link to my podcast Episode 105: Vriddhashram Par Baatein:

The episode on Vriddhashram evoked a lot of emotional responses. I have made an attempt to share various views as they were received with you. I think, that these variety of views or perspectives need rumination on our part. Please listen to it and see, if something is needed from you. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 104: Ham kahaan jaa rahe hain

 We keep moving from one stage in life to another. Sometimes we plan for the destination and sometimes the destination comes to us as a surprise. What to do when you land at a place about which you never planned, or even imagined. I share my views and experiences. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 103: Sorry kahnaa

On one hand saying sorry is the easiest thing and on the other, it is one of the most difficult things to do. Especially when you are not really sorry for what you have done. Here, I  express my take on saying sorry. I do hope it is of use and value to all of us. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 102: Bhagvaan banaa lenaa

Most of us have tendency to place people at a pedestal and make them our God. But to me this is one practice which not only puts us in trouble, but also creates problems for the one who is placed there. My take!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 101: Vriddhaashram

Have we never clucked our tongues when we heard of someone going to an old-age-home/assisted living? If the answer is yes, then today I am asking you a question. If the answer is no, then I want you to add to what I have tried to convey. I have given my views, and now would like to have your thoughts. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 100: Shatak Pooraa Hua

Reaching a hundred is a dream come true for me. I have tried to recollect some comments and feelings while recording the episodes. I am sure I have missed many, for various reasons, memory lapse, time constraint, propriety etc. Hope to be excused. No message in this episode, except that we should keep talking, now and always, so that at least we do not regret not having talked, when the time is up! I keep talking. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 99: Seema Rekha

We live within boundaries, whether set by ourselves or by others. The boundaries may be physical as well as mental. Only thing is when they become Laxman Rekha, what to do in those circumstances? Who decides whether the boundary is liquid or not? My dilemma, for your appreciation, is presented here. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 98: Khayaali Pulaav 

Khayaali Pulaav is an imaginary dish which is enjoyed mentally. If this dish motivates to action, then it is worth it, if not then it could be disastrous to the one who is imagining and sometimes even to others. I am sharing few spoons of my Khayaali Pulaav. 

Humne Ek Baat Kahi- Episode 97: Zimmedaari

Zimmedaari – responsibility. Sense of responsibility and and at the same time expressing the reason for that sense of responsibility. I am of the opinion that responsibility comes because of love and care. It is important to express that also. How I have seen it in my life!   

This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 96: Rishte_Benaam_bhee_ho_Sakte_hain

Is there a prescribed age when friendships can be developed. What should be the touchstone for a relationship to be called friendship? Is is necessary for each relation to have a name? I have raised questions for you. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 95: Jhuth kyaa hotaa hai?

Lies have so many colours and shades. They are needed or not? Perhaps depends on perspective. But I start today with wishing my daughter Happy Birthday who once asked “Jhuth kyaa hota hai?” I have shared my take on lies.

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 94: Bachchon ko Samajhnaa

I am sharing a feeling which is common among almost all parents. I am just trying to put it into words. This is my take.  

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 93: Shaadiyon ki aur Baatein

One of the most colorful events which one can witness in one’s life is the traditional weddings. I have also had the opportunity to participate in a few in a variety of main and side roles. Some such experiences and observations. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 92: Shaadiyon ki Baatein

Marriages are definitely made in heaven, but they are definitely performed here. Let us talk about them. I am starting with the initial stages. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 91: Baatein Karte Rahiye

Growth is way of life. Things will keep coming up whether we want them or not. Space between relations also tend to promote growth of some infra projects in between which may inhibit development of relations. So, only feasible solution is to keep talking. I do that. Sometimes when other person is not in front of me, I prefer to imagine them and talk in cyberspace. Like in the present instance, when I am talking to you… 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 90: Interview mein fail

First few interviews are always memorable. This is one such memory, which was a fantastic lesson for me. Let me share. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 89: Anxiety kaa matlab kya hotaa hai?

Anxiety can cause a lot to a human body. What does it mean to me and how I cope with it. Let me share. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 88: Naam ki Daastaan

It is said that what is there in a name. But to me there is a lot in the name, especially, how it is remembered by others. Some thoughts about my own name. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 87: Meri Maa Ammaji

We have just witnessed nine days immersed in the glory of motherhood. This led me thinking as to where is my share of glorifying my mother. But then I started thinking as to why I did not do it till now. Better late than never. Here is a glimpse.

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 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 86: Ummeed 

Hope is immortal and its’ flame needs to be kept alive. I have very vivid experiences of hopes and their fulfilment. Let us walk that path together!  

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 85: Bahnaaapaa

Something which is more than friendship and has variety of characteristics. I share my view of bahnaapaa giving examples from my life. 

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 84: Kathputali

Puppets! Sometimes we are the puppets and at others we are the puppet masters. But I tried to be a puppet and puppet master at the same time!

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 83: sapane hain sapane

Dreams! I dream a little. But I want to talk a lot about my dreams and dreams of others. Let us begin…

 This is a  link to my podcast-Episode 82: Ganpati Utsav

My take on Ganpati Utsav, to which I got introduced very late in life. One of those festivals which bring joy and gaiety all around and which as enjoyable and respected in personal life, as in public. My experiences.